April 25, 2014

I know I haven't posted in the past couple of days but it is because I didn't really feel like I had much to say. I finally do, and buckle up because this is going to be a long post.
After my friend said something on facebook about people having more kids that they can't take care of, or along those lines, it made me want to look on a certain someone's profile.

Yes, I'm talking about my own deadbeat baby daddy.

And I have to be completely honest with you guys...I found it quite hilarious!

First off, many, many times he says, "daddy misses you kids, daddy loves you."
First glance is "Aweee, he loves his kids! What a good father!"
But TRUTH: "Aweee, how delusional he is! He doesn't even know his own kids!"
What's worse, is that he's having a FOURTH child!

He changed his profile picture to one of my son. Okay.
Someone asked him who the boy was and how old.
"He's going to be six and his name is Kayden."

Uhh, what?
Kaiden is not even five yet, and it's spelled KAIDEN.

Moving on, he talks many time about being so high and drunk. Well I know weed and alcohol aren't that cheap, especially if you do it all the time. So, you can afford drugs, but you can't afford anything for any of your three children?

And then, he always talks about wanting to hurt someone so bad that he would land in jail.
He's always getting so mad and angry at the world.
Always talks about giving up.

He also always talks about seeing his kids.
Like what attempt has he made the past two years to see my child?
Nada. Zip. Zilch.

And apparently, if he had his three other kids, he would move down to Mississippi.
As IF you would ever have your three other kids.
Especially not mine.
He gave his fiancée a black eye.
What makes me think that my child would not get a black eye from him?

Everything I see on his facebook...everything makes me know that I made the RIGHT decision to not have him involved in Kaiden's life.
He will NEVER get Kaiden.
On his life.

This is all hilarious to me.
He is so delusional.

Like, how can you go years without talking or seeing your children, but then think that you would ever get custody of any of them and move down south?
What kind of mentality do you have? What kind of world do you live in?

I just don't understand.

You keep wanting to know why I won't let you see my child?
Look at your facebook a moment. Every single part of it.

I'm just BLOWN away by the high amount of STUPIDITY and lack of SENSE that you have. It honestly AMAZES me. I don't know what the (insert choice words) I was thinking!! The ONLY good thing that came out of dating you was my wonderful, amazing, sweet, NOTHING LIKE YOU, little man that is my entire world.
But no matter how hard being a single parent is...I gotta tell you, I don't wish you were involved AT ALL.
Just wow.
Absolutely WOW.

That will be all for right now.
But I guarantee you, I am far from done. You will hear more on this matter in the future.